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Do Companies List Fake Jobs?
Q.
When I submit applications through a company's website, I
never get a response. My well-written cover letter and resume
seem to disappear into some kind of black hole. Do you think
companies sometimes list fake jobs to give investors the
impression that they’re growing?
A.
Your lack of feedback can be explained without a
conspiracy theory. Advertised jobs are a mixed blessing. The
good news is that you know a position is available. The bad
news is that everyone else also knows.
Because ads generate a large response, recruiters simply don’t
have time for individual replies. So applicants seldom hear
anything unless they are asked to interview.
To
avoid the black hole, develop personal contacts through
networking. That way, you may learn about openings before
they’re posted. Networking requires more effort than online
submissions, but unfortunately it takes work to find work.
Related information from Your Office Coach:
·
Why People Hate Networking
(and what to do about it) from our Job
Search Skills section
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How Do I Explain Harassment in an Interview?
Q:
I’m looking for a new job because I’ve been
sexually harassed by my boss, who is the CEO of the company.
When interviewers ask why I’m seeking a new position, do I tell
them the truth? Or just say I’m looking for something more
challenging?
A:
Because interviewers are always on the alert for
potential problems, you should never mention sexual harassment
during a job search. Instead of being sympathetic, the
interviewer may jump to the erroneous conclusion that you could
be a troublemaker. This isn't fair, but it’s a fact.
You want to shine the spotlight on your outstanding
qualifications, not your boss’s sexual shenanigans. So when
discussing your decision to leave, give a truthful reason that
has nothing to do with the lecherous CEO. Smart applicants
explain why they’re excited about a new job, not why they had
problems with the old one.
Related information from Your Office Coach:
·
Frequently-asked Job Search Questions
from our Job
Search Skills section
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Why Do I Need a College Degree?
Q:
I have more than twenty years of experience in a
computer-related industry. I’ve been in management, owned my
own business, and consulted with large companies.
Three years ago, I decided to pursue a completely
new profession. I enrolled in college courses and took
entry-level jobs to get started. Now that I have three years’
experience, I want to advance my career.
Currently, my company has no promotional
openings, so I decided to explore the job market. I found that
I need a four-year degree to even get an interview.
I have a lot of ability and experience to offer,
so why do I need some piece of paper that says I went to school
for four years? I may not have a degree, but I do have a
brain! Why is a degree more important than professional
experience?
A:
After years of success, being a rookie in a new profession is
tough. Despite your long history of achievement, you now have
to prove yourself all over again. In this new field, you have
only three years’ experience, not twenty. And your previous
work history may be considered irrelevant.
In certain
occupations, the degree requirement insures that practitioners
have an adequate knowledge base. For those professions, a
college diploma is the entry ticket.
In fields where a
degree is not mandatory, the need for one depends largely on the
job market. If many college-educated applicants are available,
non-graduates may be at a disadvantage. But if there are
numerous vacancies and few applicants, employers will be more
flexible.
At this point,
your best career bet is to seek promotional opportunities with
your current company, where your track record outweighs any
educational shortcomings. Once you have higher-level
experience, opportunities may open up elsewhere.
If circumstances
allow, consider going back to school and getting that degree.
You’ll strengthen your resume, and you might even learn
something.
Related information from Your Office Coach:
Frequently-asked Job Search Questions
from our Job
Search Skills section
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Do I Have to Send a Cover Letter?
Q:
If an employment ad says "send resume" and does not specifically
mention a cover letter, is it permissible to forward only a
resume? Or should a cover letter always be attached?
A:
Always include a
cover letter (or “cover email’), even if one is not requested.
And don’t just send the same boring, two-sentence message to
every potential employer.
Instead, view your letter as an opportunity to stand out from
the crowd. While the resume provides a factual summary of your
background, the cover letter can convey your attitude and
personality.
Discuss your interest in the job, the value of your experience,
and the attributes that make you an outstanding employee.
Explain why you are excited about working for this particular
organization.
But
don’t make the mistake of sharing too much. Comments about your
divorce, your pets, your hobbies, or your religion may be
considered irrelevant or inappropriate.
To
get a job, you must first get an interview. The cover letter
can help to convince employers that you are someone they need to
meet.
Related information from Your Office Coach:
·
Fine-Tuning Your Resume
from our “Job Search Skills” section
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I'm Confused About Thank-You Letters
Q:
After a job interview, I know you should send a thank you note.
I normally fax my letters the same day or the day after.
However, I have some questions about this process.
When I’m interviewed by several people, should I
include all their names on one letter or send a separate letter
to each person? If I send separate letters, can they all have
the same wording or should each one be different?
And if someone fails to give me a business card,
what if I forget their name or don’t know how to spell it?
A:
With
multiple interviewers, you should send separate notes. A single
letter may not get passed around. Using identical wording is
okay, but you’ll make a stronger impression if you include
specific comments about each interview.
If
you need the name of an executive, check the company's website.
For others, call the main number and ask the receptionist for
help. You don’t need to give a lengthy description of your
dilemma. Just explain that you’re addressing a letter.
To
avoid this problem in the future, present your own business card
to the interviewer and ask for one in return. Unemployed job
seekers should have professionally printed cards with their name
and contact information.
And
stop faxing your letters. Fax copies often look sloppy, so take
the extra time to put your notes in the mail. This gives you
one more chance to make a good impression.
All
this may sound like a lot of work, but the most successful job
seekers view the quest for employment as a job in itself.
Related information from Your Office Coach:
·
Do's & Don'ts for Job Interviews
from our “Job Search Skills” section
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I Have To Interview Without Any Sleep
Q:
I work the night shift in a large call center, but I’m looking
for a new job. Unfortunately, two prospective employers
recently scheduled my interviews at 8:00 AM.
Although this is only a few hours after I get
home from work, I agreed for fear of seeming inflexible. I went
to both interviews with very little sleep. I know I’ll do much better in interviews if I’m
fully awake. How should I handle this?
A: Considering
the stakes, negotiating an interview time is perfectly
reasonable. Interviewers want to accurately assess your
abilities, so a later meeting will be to their benefit. Any
rational person knows that sleeplessness doesn’t promote peak
performance.
When
a prospective employer calls, simply explain that you work the
night shift and request a suitable interview time. If unusual
circumstances dictate an early appointment, at least you will
have adjusted your interviewer’s expectations.
If
someone arbitrarily insists that you come in with no sleep, be
wary. You may not want to work for a company that demonstrates
so little regard for your needs.
Related information from Your Office Coach:
·
Sample Interview Questions from
our “Job Search Skills” section
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How Do I Handle Negative Information in a Job Interview?
Q:
I’m not sure how much information to share during a job
interview. Interviewers will often ask questions like “Describe
a problem that you’ve had at work” or “What kind of manager do
you find it hard to work with?”. When asked about negative
aspects of my work experience, how should I respond?
A:
Remember that the first goal of every interviewer is to screen
out potential problem employees. So you must avoid saying
anything that would raise a red flag.
Complaining about your workload will make you sound like a
slacker. Griping about your boss will make you seem difficult
to manage. But saying that you’ve never had any problems sounds
deceptive.
One
solution is to turn negatives into positives. When asked to
describe a setback, show how you resolved the problem. When
discussing a difficult boss, explain how you learned to
successfully work with that type of manager.
To
make the best impression, rehearse possible answers ahead of
time. Many interviewers ask similar questions, so you should be
prepared with answers that present you in a positive light. A
job interview is not the place to “wing it”.
Related information from Your Office Coach:
·
Sample Interview Questions
from our “Job Search Skills” section
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I Think I’m Being Blackballed
Q:
I had
a disagreement with my supervisor, who took the issue to our
manager. When nothing had been resolved after several days, I
began to feel that my job was in jeopardy, so I quit.
Since then, I have looked for work constantly,
but no one will hire me. I have good references from prior
jobs, but I think my most recent employer is blackballing me.
What can I do about this?
A:
Do
you know for a fact that your former employer is trashing your
reputation? Or is that just the most comforting explanation for
your job search difficulties?
If you have
actual evidence of negative comments, the next question is
whether they are factually accurate. If the information is
false, advise them to stop immediately. You might even have an
attorney send a letter.
If their
unflattering remarks are truthful, however, then you have no
leverage to make demands. Instead, try to reach agreement on
how your work history will be described to prospective
employers. Having left on bad terms, you may need to grovel a
bit to get their cooperation.
But if you have
no proof and are simply speculating about the reason for
rejections, you may be overlooking the true cause. Blaming
others could keep you from revising a poorly written resume or
sharpening your interviewing skills. And one final note: I hope
you have learned that quitting one job before finding another is
a very risky move.
Helpful links related to this topic on Your Office
Coach:
“Frequently-asked
Job Search Questions” at http://yourofficecoach.com/Topics/frequentlyasked_job_search_ques.htm
“Five Key
Job-seeking Skills” at
http://yourofficecoach.com/Topics/five_key_job-seeking_skills.htm
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How Can I Get Better Salary
Offers?
Q:
I’m
not getting any decent salary offers during my search for a new
job, so I need to figure out whether my expectations are
reasonable. I do know that I'm being underpaid in my current
position.
I served in the military for several years and
now work for the federal government. Next year, I will complete
my business administration degree. Do you think I receive low
offers because I have not yet obtained my degree or because I'm
not marketing myself well?
A:
For a reality check on your expectations,
research typical salaries for the jobs that you’re considering.
Possible information sources include professional associations,
salary comparison websites, or friends who work in human
resources. Networking with people who hold similar positions
can also be helpful.
Your
current low salary may be triggering the unsatisfactory offers.
Many organizations automatically offer new hires a certain
percentage above their present pay level. However, that figure
is often negotiable.
When
you receive an offer, ask where the proposed salary falls in the
pay range. If the level seems low, explain why you believe your
experience should place you higher in the range. Or you might
ask for a guaranteed increase upon completion of your degree.
Negotiating your starting pay is important, because future
increases are usually based on a percentage of your salary. So
don't be afraid to ask for more. Just be prepared to explain
why you're worth it.
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Why Do I Keep Getting Fired?
Q:
I
have been fired from almost every job I’ve ever had. My friend
says I’m just unlucky, because I seem to wind up in impossible
situations that I can’t escape.
I know that difficult people are in every
workplace, but I guess I haven’t learned how to properly
navigate around the worst ones. I’ve tried the fight-back
approach and the just-deal-with-it approach, but neither seems
to work.
Last time, I
made a preemptive strike by going to human resources, but still
wound up on the losing end of the stick. I have been fired from
five jobs in seven years. What would you recommend for someone
like me?
A:
Getting fired
five times in seven years is not bad luck. It’s a
self-destructive pattern. When the same problem occurs
repeatedly, the cause almost always lies in the person’s own
actions.
Based
on your description, you appear to get emotionally "hooked" by
certain types of people. The resulting conflict eventually
causes management to view you as a liability.
To
break this pattern, stop blaming the "difficult" coworkers and
start identifying your own troublesome behaviors. Review the
events that preceded each termination. How did your actions
make the situation worse? What could you have done differently?
If
you can’t answer these questions, ask for feedback from
managers, coworkers, friends, or relatives. Listen carefully to
what they say. And don’t argue.
To
salvage your career, you must become a stable, cooperative,
undemanding employee. If you can’t make this change on your
own, then seek out professional counseling.
Helpful links related to this topic on Your Office
Coach:
“Are You in
Danger of Losing Your Job?” at
http://yourofficecoach.com/Topics/danger_signs_job.htm
“Dealing with
Enemies & Adversaries” at
http://yourofficecoach.com/Topics/enemies_&_adversaries.htm
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How Do I Get a Job Without
Experience?
Q.
I need
to vent about looking for a job. Employers always want to
hire experienced people, so they don’t have to do much training.
But how can I get experience if no one will give me that first
chance?
Also, how can a person become proficient at
anything without using those skills on a consistent basis?
You can take classes to learn things, which I have done, but
that’s not the same as experience.
A:
You’ve
encountered the classic dilemma of every newly-minted
professional: you can’t get a job without experience and you
can’t get experience without a job. Fortunately, a
full-time position is not the only way to develop skills and
boost your resume.
One
strategy is to obtain short-term assignments in your field by
signing on with a temporary employment agency. For those who
are mobile and flexible, contract jobs are available at all
levels, from administrative assistant to CEO. And as a
temp, you can get the inside scoop on prospective employers
without making a permanent commitment.
Another option is to offer your talents to a non-profit
organization. Because of their limited budgets, charitable and
civic groups often welcome skilled volunteer help. Such
unpaid work can provide both valuable experience and a reference
who can validate your abilities.
If
you are currently employed, but trying to change professions,
look for stepping-stone opportunities with your present
employer. For example, an engineer interested in being a
trainer volunteered to teach classes in his field. And a
secretary hoping to become a project manager asked to head up
some small projects in her department.
Finally, remember that looking for a job is a job in itself.
To compensate for lack of experience, you must demonstrate
stellar skills in networking, resume preparation, and
interviewing. If you are both qualified and persistent,
your frustrating job search will eventually come to an end.
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Why Don’t Interviewers Give
More Information?
Q:
As an applicant, I get frustrated when interviewers don’t bother
to tell me anything about the company or the job. Without this
information, how can I know whether I want a future with a
potential employer? Are job applicants expected to learn about
the company on their own before accepting a position? In the
Dark
A:
Sounds to me like someone is being a bit lazy. Before you ever
set foot in an interviewer’s office, you should have thoroughly
researched the company. Fortunately, the Internet makes this so
very easy. In the olden times, people had to dig around in
libraries, but now you can gather a wealth of information with
just a few clicks.
Interviewers
actually expect you to have done some homework, so a lack of
knowledge may cause them to question both your interest and your
common sense. Always remember that employers look for
applicants who are motivated to work for their particular
organization. If you know nothing about the place, how can you
be excited about working there?
Research also has
other benefits. You can ask questions that may impress the
interviewer, like “How was your company able to achieve such a
significant increase in market share?” And the more you learn,
the better equipped you will be to decide whether an employer is
a good fit for you.
You seem
surprised that interviewers withhold information, so here’s the
reason: they want unbiased answers to their questions. The more
they tell you, the more clues you have about how to give the
preferred response.
If you need more
information to answer a question, however, you should politely
request it. For example: “I could address that subject more
thoroughly if I knew more about the type of projects involved in
this position.” You may or may not get an answer, but there’s no
harm in asking.
Marie McIntyre
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Can I Quit My New Job?
Q:
Although I have a Master’s degree, I recently accepted a
clerical position because I needed the pay and benefits.
However, I have now been offered a job in human resources, which
is my professional field. Is it ethical for me to resign after
being with this organization such a short time? I don't want to
burn any bridges.
A:
I’m not a big fan of breaking commitments. But
in this case, because your present job is such a poor
match for your qualifications, I think you should take the
opportunity to return to your profession. Staying with your
current employer could cause you to become unhappy and
resentful, which would not benefit anyone.
To
make a graceful exit, start by having a sincere and
straightforward conversation with your boss. Explain that this
unexpected opportunity is directly related to your educational
background and career goals. Tell him how bad you feel about
leaving so quickly. Then give as much notice as possible and do
top-notch work for as long as you’re there.
Your
manager may be justifiably irritated about the suddenness of
your departure, but hiring overqualified applicants is always a
risk. So do whatever you can to make the transition easier,
then go to your new job with a clear conscience. Marie McIntyre
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How Does a Mom Get a Job?
Q.
I am a
mother of three who is trying to return to the workforce. I
keep sending out resumes, but can’t seem to get an interview.
However, I know that once an employer sees my commitment and
willingness to learn, I will get a job. What can a mother do to
get back into the working world?
A.
There are two paths to an interview: (1) sending
out resumes and (2) getting contacts from people you know. In
your case, personal referral is a better bet, since your resume
is a little slim and can’t convey your positive personal
attributes.
This
means that you have to really work your contacts. Do all of
your family members, friends, and acquaintances know that you’re
looking for work? Have you asked them for names of people who
might be helpful?
When
you call networking contacts, don’t ask if they have a job
available, because the answer to that question will usually be a
quick “no”. Instead, concisely describe your career goal, then
ask if they can suggest others for you to contact.
Keep
an organized file or database of your networking contacts and
the results of each phone call. Ask if it’s okay to touch base
with them every month or so by email, then send regular updates
to your email list about your job search.
You
might also consider doing some “informational interviews” – that
is, making calls to learn more about a particular type of work.
As long as you indicate that you’re just researching, many
people will be glad to answer questions about their job. And if
you impress them on the phone, they might become a good referral
source.
To be
sure that your resume makes a good impression, read books or
online information about resume preparation and get feedback
from friends with hiring experience. Be sure to include any
relevant non-paid activities, such as volunteer work, leadership
roles, or work for a family member. During interviews, be
prepared to describe how experience from your “non-work” years
will help you succeed on the job.
Finally, connect with local job seekers’ groups. These are
usually advertised in the paper, on job search sites, or though
churches, where a lot of them are held. Such groups can provide
both social support and job leads, since one person’s rejected
opportunity can be another’s perfect job. Marie McIntyre
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What Can I Do About Rude
Interviewers?
Q:
While looking for a new job, I have noticed that interviewers
don't bother to read my application or even turn off their cell
phones. Since they don’t know what my application says, they
clearly aren’t very interested in me. As soon as the cell phone
rings, they stop talking to me and answer it, which is really
rude. How do I, the applicant, politely end the interview? May
I point out to them how rude they are?
A:
A job search is
frustrating enough without being treated like a piece of
furniture. But here’s a cruel reality: as long as you hope to
get the job, the interviewer has all the power. So if you want
to be hired, you must tolerate ringing cell phones and clueless
questions.
As an
applicant, you have very little control, which is an unpleasant
feeling for most of us. Although criticizing the interviewer
and walking out might help you regain a sense of control, it
guarantees that you won’t get the job.
Here’s what I suggest: Accept the fact that being a
job applicant isn’t much fun. Be as pleasant and friendly as
possible during interviews. And quietly enjoy feeling superior
to ill-mannered interviewers whose mothers obviously didn’t
raise them right.
Should you want to terminate an interview, simply
say “I’ve enjoyed talking with you, but I don’t think that I
would be a very good fit for the position you have available”.
Forget about critiquing interviewers’ behavior unless you want
your job search to last forever.
Your assumption that they have not read your
application is probably incorrect. After all, someone had to
evaluate your qualifications before deciding to talk with you.
Interviewers review many applications, so expecting them to
commit yours to memory is rather unrealistic.
Because looking for work is stressful, consider joining a job
search group where you can commiserate with other applicants.
That way, you can vent your frustrations without alienating the
people you are trying to impress. Marie McIntyre
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Why Can’t I Get An Interview?
Q.
I have applied for many jobs, but no one calls me
for an interview. For ten years, I have worked in call centers
for tech support and customer service. My resume has been
professionally written, but I am not getting any bites at all.
What am I to do? Feeling Hopeless
A.
Because many call center jobs are being outsourced overseas, you
have a lot of competition. To get an interview, you have to
stand out from the crowd. And to stand out, you need
personal contacts and a first-class resume.
After ten years,
you must know a lot people in your field. Use these networking
contacts to locate openings and connect with interviewers. With
many qualified applicants available, interviewers often give
first priority to those referred by someone they know.
Despite being professionally prepared, your resume may not be as
powerful as possible.
A resume is a sales tool with one single purpose: to convince an
employer to interview you instead of someone else. If your
contacts include managers or HR people, ask them for feedback on
your resume. Here are some questions to consider:
§
Do you customize your resume for each job? For
every position, you need to highlight the most relevant parts of
your background.
A generic resume will often get you a generic
response: no interest.
§
Have you included everything that might attract
an interviewer’s attention? Training, certifications, projects,
special assignments – even volunteer work – can all help to get
you noticed.
§
When you send your resume electronically, do you
know how it looks on the receiving end? One applicant found
that during transmission, all her fancy bullets had turned into
tiny little lips! No kidding.
§
Have you double-checked for mistakes or
misspellings? Even one slip-up can make you appear careless and
cost you an interview. (Not to be picky, but your email to us
had two spelling errors.)
Looking for work
is just not fun. Job seekers face constant rejection and have
no idea when it will end. So consider joining a job search
group where you and your fellow sufferers can share
frustrations. The emotional support will help keep your spirits
up, and you may also get some job leads. Marie McIntyre
Helpful
links related to this topic on Your Office Coach:
§
“Do’s & Don’ts for Job Interviews” at
http://yourofficecoach.com/Topics/do's_don'ts_interviewing.htm
§
“Interesting Interview Questions” at
http://yourofficecoach.com/Topics/interview_questions.htm
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The Job-Hopper Blues
Q: I don’t seem to be able to get a job interview. I am an
honest, successful, hardworking employee who has changed
employers four times in the last five years. I have never been
fired or laid off, and every change was for a good reason, but
now I’m not getting any responses to my resume. Recruiters say
it is because I have " job-hopped ", but honestly, I have not
found the right fit. After one year with my current employer, I
am absolutely miserable. What am I to do? Mr. Honest
A: I believe this calls for a short lesson on patterns. If it
seems unrelated, just hang with me for a bit.
Consider the example of divorce. Marriages may end for many reasons, but
if the same guy gets divorced three times, that’s a pattern.
Our thrice-married friend either has difficulty picking the
right partner or adjusting to married life. He needs to take a
long, hard look in the mirror, because he is somehow causing
this problem. If he fails to recognize this, then more botched
relationships probably lie ahead. Get the point?
Since you are now contemplating your fifth job change in as many years,
something is clearly wrong with either (a) your job selection
process or (b) your job adjustment process. I don’t know what
your “good reasons” were for changing jobs, but here are some
possibilities:
1.
You don't really like your profession, so you quickly become
unhappy with the work.
2.
You resent authority and therefore have a hard time getting
along with managers.
3.
You enjoy starting things more than finishing them and get
bored once the novelty wears off.
4.
You have unrealistic expectations about how rapidly you
should advance.
Do any of those sound like you? If not, can you find a common thread in
your own reasons for leaving? Try to figure out why you either
pick jobs that are a bad fit or have trouble adjusting once you
are there.
Even though you are unhappy in your current position, you really need to
diagnose the underlying cause of your constant dissatisfaction
before switching again. Otherwise, your job-hopping pattern is
very likely to repeat.
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How Do I Help My Daughter
Find A Job?
Q.
Now
that my daughter has finished school, she appears very
overwhelmed with finding a job. She has a Master’s degree in
business, but doesn’t seem to know how to approach a job search.
As a parent, what’s the best way for me to help?
A.
There’s a world of difference between being a student and being
a job applicant. After many years in the comfortable confines
of academia, your daughter now must undertake a task for which
she has received little preparation. Most college students are
taught how to work in their field, but not how to find a job
there.
Your
daughter’s alma mater undoubtedly has a career counseling and
placement office, so that’s the first resource she should tap.
If she hasn’t explored these services, then she should check out
the resources on their website and make an appointment to talk
with a counselor.
As a
parent, your role is to support your daughter without taking
over the tasks that she needs to do herself. For example, you
can suggest a visit to the placement office, but she needs to
make the appointment. You can give her feedback on her resume,
but she needs to write it. You can identify friends and
relatives who might provide job leads, but she needs to contact
them. In short, help her learn how to find a job instead of
trying to find one for her.
To
break the process down into manageable pieces, let your daughter
know that looking for work includes five basic steps: 1) setting
career goals, 2) networking, 3) resume writing, 4) interviewing,
and 5) job selection. Many books and online resources are
available to help with these activities. Suggestions for each
step can also be found on our website at the link below.
Parents are often very helpful with networking, since they know
many people. And those with management or human resources
experience can assist with resume review and interview
practice. But be wary of getting too involved in career
choice. As parents, we are seldom objective about our children
and generally make lousy career counselors.
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Can I Keep My Bonus After I
Quit?
Q: In a couple of weeks, we will receive our performance
reviews for the year, followed by our annual bonuses. Although
no one knows it yet, I have been offered a job in another
state. I plan to accept this offer and leave my present
employer, which means that I will be quitting right after I get
my bonus. Is this a tacky thing to do? I really like my boss
and don’t want to offend him.
A: If you’re
asking whether it’s okay to take the money and run, in my
opinion that’s a no-brainer. Your annual bonus is given for
work done in the previous year, so you’ve already earned that
money. In many organizations, you can lose your entire bonus by
leaving before it’s awarded, so people often wait until after
that date to give notice. In fact, to do otherwise would really
not be too bright!
However, if you
were a new hire who left right after receiving a signing bonus,
my answer would be different. That would be unethical. But an
annual bonus is a different matter.
Should anyone
try to make you feel guilty for this, they just don’t understand
how the compensation system works. Since you like your boss,
let him know that you appreciate the bonus and hope that the
timing of your departure doesn’t make you appear ungrateful.
Of course, you
do need to give a sufficient notice period, leave your work in
good shape for the next person, and provide any needed
assistance with the transition. But since you are someone who
worries about ethics, I’m sure you were going to do those things
anyway. Marie McIntyre
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